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There's this little website out there called Soompi, maybe you've heard of it? Anyway one of their authors wrote an article in response to another article based on a segment called This American Life which airs on NPR (at least where I am).
While I sort of agree with most of what authors says in regards to plastic surgery there were a few things in it I had a problem with. I understand the article is just the author's opinions so I guess this is just my reaction to her reaction about the original article that was based on the TAL piece... Phew.
Briefly, the original Jezebel article is about an American teacher in Korea and how she reacts to the prevalence of plastic surgery there and the possible reasons behind it.
The show was anchored by a brief interview with a woman who had moved to South Korea to teach English at an all-girls high school. When she got there, she was stunned to realize that people in other parts of the world dont necessarily think the way Americans do:OK, so right off the bad I sort of have an issue with this. I think I know what the author is trying to say but phrasing it like that make you sound biased. It's a well known stereotype that Americans are dumb as shit and don't know anything about the world other than moose up north, drugs to the south. Does the author really think all Americans assume everyone in the world thinks the way they do? I'd hope not. I'd think if someone was willing to commit to living and teaching in Korea they would read up on the culture. This is just nit-picking, I know, but when you start off your article like that it puts me on alert.
For one thing, both were based on the assumption that America is somehow different from Korea, that its a place where physical appearance doesnt matter. Anyone who truly believes thatas the interviewee obviously doesis both naive and uninformed.I didn't get that at all. Just because someone writes an article saying, "Look at all the plastic surgery people are getting in Korea, isn't that strange? Let's examine why this is happening": That doesn't necessarily translate into Korea and America are completely different. The article is examining one facet of Korean culture, beauty. That you go on to say that the author is both "naive and uninformed" doesn't reflect well on you either and feeds into the notion that you went into this thing with a preconceived bias.
I would also argue that Korea and America are different.
While Korea may embrace plastic surgery in a way America doesnt (yet), the two nations arent that different. I suspect you could easily find girls longing for plastic surgery in high schools from Maine to Alaska to California.Yes they are. Of course there are people all over the world who want to change things about their bodies. But you're saying that there really is no difference between Korea and America with regards to beauty in response to an article entirely about how Korea has the most plastic surgery in the world. Clearly there are some major differences between the two cultures.
And while we give a lot of lip service to equal opportunity and social mobility here, discrimination based on looks is not illegal, as the presenter of This American Life helpfully reminded listeners. Our resumes and college applications dont have spots for our photographs, unlike the ones prepared in Korea. But studies still show that in America taller people tend to be more professionally successful than shorter people; heavier people are less likely to be hired than their thinner counterparts; and men make more money than women. Discrimination based on race actually isillegal, but that doesnt mean it doesnt happen.Those aren't American things that happen, those are human things that happen. Studies have shown that even babies can recognize beauty.
I suspect the author of the Jezebel article and I have similar reactions to plastic surgery being used for solely aesthetic purposesa mixture of anger and sadness. What makes us believe that were not good enough as we are? Why must everyone on the planet look exactly the same? What is it that drives us to remake ourselves from the bone up, just so we look like someoneor somethingelse?
Ultimately, though, I acknowledge that this is just a particularly tempting kind of hypocrisy...
The Jezebel article is too busy gawking at the Tumblr devoted to Korean plastic surgery to make this connection.The article doesn't say that at all, either. It simply uses the Tumblr as a jumping off point to discuss the drastic levels of plastic surgery some women get as well as to show what is considered the "ideal" look for women. In your zealousness to contradict the Jezebel article you seem to have missed the fact that the author does agree with what you're saying. The author never once says there is only one clear choice that people should make, even though she clearly disagrees with the "herd mentality" that says all women should look the same way. Personal beliefs aside comparing plastic surgery to abortion is a completely false analogy.
One of the arguments for plastic surgery that comes up in the Jezebel article is that it gives people confidence. Maybe thats true for a while, but every cosmetic procedure ever invented wont change the person you are on the inside. I have comparable experience on this front: when I was younger, I lost a ton of weight. I dont think its an exaggeration to say that on the outside I became another person. But on the inside? Nothing had really changed. I was still quiet and shy and preferred my own company, and its hard to imagine that the results of plastic surgery would be any different.That's your opinion and is entirely anecdotal. I can show you a bunch of articles that report just the opposite, that plastic surgery increases self confidence. I would also argue that in the case of idols and actors, it's not about what's on the inside, as cold as that sounds. They are in the business of looking attractive, to sell products, and how they feel on the inside has little bearing on that.
The moral of that particular story, I think, is that we are who we are. Its how the world views us that we need to change to find happiness, not ourselves.I agree, and that's also the gist of what the Jezebel article says:
True beauty is on the inside!In the end you're both saying the same thing: Look like how you look, fuck da haters. I just wish you would've gone into your article with less of a bias.
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Thank you for reading article re: re: re: plastic surgery
